Cogitating the Movie: Taare Zameen Par

Aamir Khan (famously known for his role Rancho in  the movie 3 idiots) once again impresses me with a very inspiring movie Taare Zameen Par (translation: Stars on Earth). The story is about Ishan, an eight-year-old boy who has problems dealing with his social life as well as his academic life. He constantly flunks examinations, gets punished and humiliated by teachers and be misunderstood by his peers. Ishan has a strict disciplinary father who expects his sons to excel in their academics, a caring mother and an overachiever brother. Because of his poor academic performance, his father sends him to a boarding school which only exacerbates his situation due to the school’s strict disciplinary policy and his homesickness. That is until he meets, Nikumbh (Aamir Khan, who portrays another inspiring character), a substitute art teacher who teaches differently from all the other teachers in school and his predecessor.

Ishan catches Nikumbh’s attention because of his indifference towards others. Nikumbh later on discovers that Ishan has been suffering from dyslexia, a learning disability that impairs one’s ability to comprehend and process letters; thus, the difficulty in reading and writing. To reach out to Ishan and shed him a light of hope (not the cigarette), Nikumbh introduces to the class famous people who is suffering from the same disability as him.

During his discussion, I was simply awed at the discovery that the famous Albert Einstein, Leonardo da Vinci, Thomas Edison and the great sculptor Picasso were dyslexic. To be more convinced, I researched for myself and found out that aside from those four famous geniuses that Nikumbh introduced to the children, I found that there were many others, icons and celebrities I idolized struggled from dyslexia and overcome it. Famous people like Orlando Bloom, Kiera Knightly, Mozart, Cher, Tom Cruise and a lot more (click list here).

The film has a bit of similarity to ‘3 Idiots‘, but of course, the plot is entirely different from each other. I just saw that in both films, they portray the world as a pool of competition and an embodiment of Darwin’s theory of natural selection: the survival of the fittest. While in 3 idiots, Virus compares the world to that of a Koel, laying her nest on another bird’s nest and pushing the other eggs away. In this movie, the world thrives in three pillars: order, discipline and labour. Both films depict that life is a race, and in order to survive, you must have the highest grade and the highest rank. But in both films,  the protagonist’s (Aamir Khan’s role) shows his principled opposition to the world’s notion. For that, I am truly inspired by Aamir Khan right now. I wonder if he is really like Rancho or Nikumbh in real life.

This movie, aside from its similar theme to 3 idiots focuses also on the family and the value of a child and his potentials. Nikumbh convinces Ishan’s father that he should see beyond what the world expects of children and look deep inside and find Ishan’s true potentials. Ishan’s father, a dominating, very strict patriarch was left speechless when Nikumbh tells him about what villagers in Solomon islands do to deforest. He says that the villagers there have a unique way of cutting trees. Instead of the usual cutting, they would gather all those trees and shoot insults and verbal abuses at them. In a few days, the trees die on their own. I don’t know if this is really true in Solomon islands, but I see the metaphor behind it in disciplining children. Raise a child in abuse and insult, and slowly kill him in the process. Children should be reared in love and appreciation and as a parent, you might rule with an iron fist, but a child is not mature enough to equate your austerity with love. He might misinterpret your strictness for being unloved. Yes, my dear parents, it’s okay to discipline children, but it would be also nice that you show your appreciation to them. It’s not all the time it’s you who get to hear the words I love you, or sorry or thank you. Sometimes, children need to hear those words from you, too, just so that they will feel you love them. Am I right? or Am I right?

Over all, the movie was really great. It made me cry a little (I’m such a crybaby. Just a few hours before I watched the movie, I cried watching Rascal Flatts music videos). It’s a movie, I definitely recommend for the whole family to watch. I would gladly recommend it to my father, who at times, just couldn’t really show his appreciation of me, though I’m not really bitter about that. The movie has inspired me to paint again, too. I think I missed out in my summary that despite Ishan’s difficulty in reading, writing and numbers, he’s actually a very skilled painter. I remembered that in my high school days, I used to paint and draw a lot and I even won awards to testify to my skills. Now, I’m evaluating myself and realizing that I had not nurtured those skills these past years. Maybe, I’m driven by the world’s notion of success that I had let go of my talents (hopefully, this is not the case). But I promise now, I have to get back to painting before I regret anything. At least for now, it’s not too late to nurture what I almost lost.

 

Cogitating Gossip Girl Episodes 18

The 18th episode was full of Vanderwoodsen drama

It took almost a month or maybe more than a month of anticipation and waiting for Gossip Girl’s 18th episode. Before this was an episode  that ended with Dan and Blair’s kiss: the kiss that got every Gossip Girl viewers wondering how it turned out, the kiss that ignited the watchers’ excitement and the kiss that turned faithful ChAir fans to Dair fans. Since I saw the chemistry between these two unlikely to end up characters, I’ve been rooting for them. (see related post) They became the only reason why I’m hooked to the show. Nate and Raina, urgh, I don’t find their coupling at all interesting. Serena and Vanessa were nuisances to me. They add unnecessary drama to the show. And Chuck, he had been too obsessed with saving his business and with winning Raina back that I . It was Dair that made the show oh, so interesting. Personally, the eighteenth episode was a disappointment (Major Disappointment) We didn’t get to see so much Dair and the story revolved around the Vanderwoodsens drama. I wonder what the creators of Gossip Girl were thinking by putting us off with a family drama and an introduction of a new character: Charlie, instead of feeding us viewers of what we really want or expected: Dair moments and maybe confessions and revelations and a Chuck Bass in the picture to complicate the situation and add more tension. (A love triangle would be very, very nice.)

Introducing Charlie, Serena's estrange cousin. I don't think she'd be relevant to the plot, though. I don't know her too well yet, but I don't like her that much.

Okay, here’s what we got instead (aside from the Vanderwoodsen drama which I really cared less): Dan coming to the photoshoot to tell Blair how the kiss meant to him and Blair supposedly telling Chuck she wants to be with him. Chuck embarrassing Dan and Dan hearing from Blair that the kiss they shared didn’t mean the same to her as it meant to him. (Urgh, the expression Dan had on his face when he heard what he heard that totally wrenched my heart. He was disappointed and dejected as I was too. But honestly, I question Blair’s credibility. I don’t think the kiss made her realize she wanted to be with Chuck. I think she’s just scared of falling for Dan. Maybe, Chuck was just a scapegoat. But I don’t know…)

Dan's disappointment when Blair told Chuck that the kiss they shared made her realize she wanted to be with Chuck.

Dan smiles when Eric points out that he isn't repulsed by the idea that Blair was trying to raise his social status to make him seem more a suitable suitor.

The only thing I like about the episode was when Dan revealed to Eric what was bothering him and the latter kept on teasing Dan about it. I love the expression on Dan’s face when he realized that he was not at all appalled by Blair’s scheme (Dan thought that having to the photoshoot was Blair’s scheme to elevate his social status, when it was actually a prank Chuck played to embarrass him). Well, I liked that part because I was expecting Blair to reciprocate and realize that she and Dan were good for each other. I also liked the part when Chuck confronted Dan about Blair’s so-called life-changing kiss to which Dan replied, “With you, she was always caught up in schemes and takedowns. But that’s not really her. She’s intelligent, she’s intuitive. You know? She weeps when she watches Nights of Cabiria.”

Chuck: Did you notice her talking to anyone? Whoever she kissed seems to have had an effect. “Life-changing” were the words she used. Dan: Well a life-changing kiss might not be something you want to mess with. Chuck: What are you trying to say, Humphrey? Dan: With you, she was always caught up in schemes and takedowns. But that’s not really her. She’s intelligent, she’s intuitive. You know? She weeps when she watches Nights of Cabiria. Chuck: How do you know that? Dan: Uh… Serena told me. But listen, if Blair’s happy, I mean maybe you should let her be. Chuck: You care more about Blair’s happiness than I knew. Dan: Eh. Chuck: Thank you for your time.

Every second of the show, I was waiting for Dair to happen, but it did not. Bummer. Spoiler alert! Okay, maybe the creators are just teasing us. Instead of getting us what we want right away, they intended for us to wait longer. In the next episode, we get to see more Dair moments (watched the promo, yo!). Serena sends Charlie to spy on the two. She reveals to Blair’s Prince (Remember episode 1 of season 4?) that Dan and Blair had been secretly seeing each other for months.  (see the promo here)

Can't wait for Gossip Girl's 19th Episode: Pretty in Pink

You know what I realized? I realized that it’s not Blair I could relate to, but Dan: that moment when you refuse to admit to yourself you like this certain person, that moment when you find yourself smiling when people tease you about it, that moment when you’ve finally admitted it to yourself and that heart-wrenching moment when you hear that that someone want to be with another one, that moment when you try to bury your feelings and move on without ever letting him/her know. Dan Humphrey, I can so totally relate to you.

AJ Perez Dead @ 18

It was a glorious Palm Sunday. Well, maybe not that glorious anymore when my sister and I heard the news that AJ Perez, one of my celebrity crushes, died. Skeptical, we immediately consulted the net and confirmed the sad news: AJ Perez was dead @18 because of suffering from multiple head injuries following a car accident.

His warm smile was what put him in my Crush list.

According to the news, he  was on his way back to Manila from Dagupan after a show when his vehicle hit  a truck somewhere in Tarlac. He was rushed to the hospital but dead on arrival with multiple head injuries. According to initial reports, his death was confirmed about 12:20 AM.

The news took me by surprise. I didn’t know AJ Perez personally (I wished), and I wasn’t really a big fan of him either (just a little bit a fan of him). Well, I do have a little crush on him. It was sad knowing he was my age, that he could’ve become more popular in the future and maximize his potentials. He was still so young. He just turned 18 last February, had a feel of how it was to be finally an adult, probably had just gotten his driver license. He probably would’ve voted wisely on the next Philippine election and would’ve done more TV shows in the future. He could’ve become a top leading man or won a ‘best actor award’, could’ve met the girl of his dreams and married her in the future, could’ve been a good father. And a lot more would’ves and could’ves.

At such young age, it feels like death has cheated on him by stealing from him all the the opportunities of doing and experiencing the things he would’ve and could’ve. That’s what made his death so painful: its suddenness.

Well, everybody is bound to die sometime. It’s just that AJ’s death was too soon.

OHMAIGOSH! They kind of look alike.

It’s kind of a coincidence that a young and talented actor like AJ Perez died on a Holy Week (Palm Sunday) as Rico Yan also died on a Holy Week, too (Good Friday). Of course, Rico Yan was a more established actor than AJ, but it does not discredit the fact that both were my crushes, both having promising futures and both taking the whole country by surprise by a premature and unexpected death.
Rest in peace, AJ Perez… Your fans love you.

Cogitating the Movie: Just Go With It

>One word in all caps and BOLD: FANTASTIC!

I watched this movie on my laptop alone and got my mother wondering why the hell was I laughing. This movie was pretty damn hilarious and yes, I said damn because I can’t exponentiate the hilarity of the movie.

Okay, here’s the summary of the movie. (spoiler alert!) 

Danny Maccabee had suffered being heartbroken by his soon-to-be-wife on his wedding day 20 years ago. He discovered that he could actually get women to sleep with him by faking an unhappy marriage and getting these women’s sympathy. Then he meets Palmer, a 23-year-old teacher and thought to himself that she was the one he was going to marry. Only one problem: Palmer mistakes Danny to be married. To cover up for that, Danny claims he is a divorcée and asks his colleague Katherine to pretend to be his ex-wife and her children to pretend to be his own. And the rest of the story is for you to watch.

Palmer meets the made up Katherine/ex-wife
Danny being fake Daddy

 This movie is crazily funny. Hahaha. Did I mention already that this movie is funny? Oh, yes I did. Hahaha.

Okay. I’ll let it out now.

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

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hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha!!!!!

Okay, that was exaggerated..

Anyway…

After a bit of reflection of the movie, I felt like singing to Taylor Swift’s ‘You Belong with Me’. And this person crosses my mind and I pop those bubbles before his face could materialize in my head.

Sometimes, you’re blinded by infatuation, physical attraction and a little sweet (probably flirtatious) moments that you fail to see that the person for you is just right beside you ALL ALONG! How you failed to notice that was because of how super close you are with each other–too close that you take each other for granted. But it’s actually with her you get to be yourself, that you get to loosen up, that you get to share all your problems, that you get to have fun, that you get to show your emotions… And all you have to do is to snap out of your trance and be really honest with yourself.

If I could rate this movie, it’s a 7.5 out of 10. The cast is great: Adam Sandler, Jen Aniston and even a little participation of Nicole Kidman, and again, I will mention: It’s really funny. But the plot is sort of made for entertainment and for laughs only. It does not leave a very big impression on me with moral lessons it could’ve passed on as did  3 Idiots which was equally funny. I have to ponder hard what moral lesson I could extract from this film. So, I think the film isn’t made for pondering, it’s made for laughs only.

Anyway, this is a movie I’d still highly recommend.. You need a dose of this movie’s humor, especially when you need a getaway.

Cogitating the Movie: A Crazy Little Thing Called Love

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My curiosity for this movie was triggered when one of my classmates recommended it to me. Then one boring afternoon, I decided to watch its trailer on youtube and was immediately love-struck by the movie or maybe by Mario Maurer, hahaha, but I knew I was going to like the film, even if it was Thai. The night on that very same day, I watched the movie in parts in Youtube.

 ‘A Crazy Little Thing Called Love’ is based on a true story, everyone’s typical story of their first crush, first love and first heartbreak. It’s a bout Nam, an average-looking 14-year-old girl crushing on Chon, a senior. Nam does everything to get Chon’s attention, this including reading magazines and books to figure out the intricacies of love and transforming herself from an awkward ugly duckling to a graceful crush-worthy swan. Nam undergoes the stages of crushing someone which eventually leads to a love she thought was unrequited, which eventually leads her to hope for it to be reciprocated, which eventually leads to a heartbreak.
What makes the movie hilarious and at the same time heartrending is its ability to make you see yourself in Nam’s shoes or maybe in Teacher’s Inn’s shoes. You remember yourself crushing on this very exemplary guy who’s way out of your league, because he’s probably a senior, probably someone so talented, someone so smart and charming that a lot of girls are after him. He’s someone you’ve had a good conversation with and with a flicker of hope in your heart, you think to yourself how you might just have a chance with him. He’s someone that made you interested in Love articles online, made you read those magazine articles about crushes, articles that you’ve overlooked before.  Someone who makes your name sound way better when he says it than anybody else saying it. Someone who inspires you to do better in your endeavors. Someone you thought was so sweet to you, but you overlooked that he’s just like that with everybody else. Someone you hoped will look at you in the way you look at him. But someone, you realized, will never do that and in the end he’s someone you’ll never forget for breaking your heart. Well, I don’t know if you’ve ever been there, but I’ve been.  
The movie was really entertaining and I classify it as one of my favorites. If there is one down side to the movie, it’s the ending. (Spoiler alert! Don’t read this paragraph if you don’t want to be spoiled.) I find the ending too good to be true, too fairytale-ish. Not that I’m cynical which I probably am because I truly envy Nam for having a happy ending where as I had not had mine yet or perhaps never will, but I would have preferred that Nam and Chon don’t end up together. I would have preferred if the ending was they go on their separate ways and Nam, after her heartbreak learns to move on. The story would have ended with a lesson to learn by all hopeless romantics out there who’s suffering a cruel plight called unrequited love. It would have taught us that sometimes, not all loves are reciprocated and that we just have to put aside that hurt, carry on with our lives and move on. It would have not spewed an absurd fantasy.

The movie culminates with their reunion years later, a scene that only aggravates the hopeless romantic in me. I don’t think this is healthy, though. Too much of that hope and you’ll get too much disappointment, too. That’s the very reason why I note to myself not to watch too much rom-coms, knowing that I’m such a sucker for it and that I’m easily dissuaded by its ideas. Hahaha. Anyway, that’s my opinion, my affliction and my dilemma. But if you’re a sucker for happy endings and fairytales which I have grown out, you’d probably be satisfied with the ending.

The lesson I learned from this romantic movie: Your first love and first heartbreak will change your life forever.  My first love story may not have a happy ending, but I will always think of it as a beautiful and enriching experience. It might have gotten me hurt at some points, but the joys of it are something that would make me want to do it all over again.